Sunday, December 28, 2008
On Israel's Response to Hamas in Gaza
The following statement, issued by Combined Jewish Philanthropies of Boston (the local Jewish Federation), is one of the best and most clear statements on the situation. I have slightly edited their original statement in order to shorten it:
"Confronted by escalating rocket and mortar attacks against its citizens, Israel had no option other than self-defense against Hamas in Gaza. Hamas is designated as a terrorist organization by the European Union, Canada and the United States. They have fired over 3,000 rockets and mortar bombs into southern Israel, a daily bombardment whose purpose has been to kill and terrify Israeli families.
In recent days, Hamas intensified its attacks on Israeli civilians, firing over 200 rockets and mortar bombs. The attacks targeted Sderot, Ashdod, and Ashkelon, a city of 120,000 people.
Earlier this year, President-elect Barak Obama stated: "If somebody was sending rockets into my house where my two daughters sleep at night, I would do everything to stop that and would expect Israel to do the same thing." While Israeli and Palestinian Authority security forces were successfully working together to ensure a peaceful Christmas celebration in Bethlehem, Hamas fired more than 100 rockets and mortars at Israel's cities and towns. Moreover, as The New York Times reported, the terrorists "increased the range and intensity" of their assault. As a result, more Israeli citizens than ever before face an ongoing, lethal threat.
Most Israeli citizens support peaceful co-existence with Palestinians, but they demand safety and security. Israeli author Amos Oz, a prominent peace activist, wrote in a recent piece entitled "Israel Must Defend Its Citizens" that, "The systematic bombing of the citizens in Israel's towns and cities is a war crime and a crime against humanity."
No country can tolerate such deliberate assaults indefinitely - and Israel has shown extraordinary restraint, publicly calling upon Hamas to stop the attacks and seeking to extend the fragile lull in hostilities that had been in effect for the last six months.
Hamas's disregard for Israeli life is matched by its disregard for the lives of Palestinians in Gaza. Hamas purposely fires its missiles from homes, schools and community centers, confident in the knowledge that when Israel finally acts, Palestinian civilians will also inevitably be harmed. The use of Palestinian civilians as human shields is not only unspeakably cruel, it is a violation of basic human rights.
Israel cares deeply about protecting the lives of civilians, both in Israel and in Gaza. Its efforts this weekend to stop the Hamas attacks represent classic self-defense, undertaken reluctantly by an Israeli nation that longs for peace.
Israel must defend its citizens. A loyal ally of the United States, Israel has rushed to our aid at times of crisis - rushing rescue workers to Nairobi, Kenya, in the wake of the bombing of the U.S. embassy there and sending planeloads of relief supplies to the victims of Hurricane Katrina. Now our friend needs our support - our strong backing for its right to defend itself from terrorist attack."
The URJ also issued a statement on the Israeli military operation, read it here.
Thursday, December 18, 2008
The more things change...
Wednesday, December 10, 2008
If you build it they will come
Ally’s service was so special because there so many little things in place that morning. Specifically, I mean that there were so many "little" worshippers in the congregation. Ally had invited her entire seventh grade religious school class to her bat mitzvah and most of them were there. I can not overstate the joy it gave me to see Sam, Mel, Rachel, Jesse, Zachary, Jacob, Molly, Brandon, Sara, and Jacob at services Saturday morning (and equally nice to see Jacob and Madison on Friday night). Inviting the group is a simple little thing, but it’s so much more.
I tell every student that they become leaders in the eyes of the Jewish community when they become bar or bat mitzvah. They lead us in prayer, in Torah study, in deeping our connection to mitzvot, and in building community. The first three tasks are accomplished through the services and their school work. They lead us in building community by gathering people together on the day of their celebration.
It is a rare but incredible thing when a seventh grade student takes this leadership role seriously – as Ally Marchiano did – and consciously works to build community. She may not be such "good friends" with all the members of our temple seventh grade. She also had plenty of school friends and basketball and soccer teammates on her guest list. However, I have heard several reports from seventh grade parents about how much their children enjoyed being together on Saturday. We do a good job creating community and connections at the school but nothing can replace the social bonds and strenghtening connections that come from a day of celebrating together. I hope all our families will follow Ally’s example and lead the community by building it. They really will come.
Monday, November 24, 2008
Complacency: Don't Let it Happen
In partnership with American Recreational Military Services, we will "adopt" a unit of the NJ National Guard stationed in Iraq. We will correspond with them directly and send them care packages as needed. Once I have the contact information and permission to communicate with their officers I will share it with you. The second project is a holiday gift drive.
American Recreational Military Services (ARMS), based in Red Bank, provides support to troops and their families. Donations to ARMS are down, their volunteer commitments have flagged, and their need is higher than ever. They are in the middle of their annual "Little Soldiers" program. They need toys and gift cards for the children of deployed servicemen, volunteers to wrap, pack, and transport packages, money to underwrite shipping costs and materials, and letters of greeting and support to the soldiers. ARMS sent me this list of gift needs: GIFT CARDS FROM TARGET, WALMART, BEST BUY, TOYS R US, AND BABIES R US, ($25 VALUE), BASKETBALL, SOCCER BALLS, BARBIE DOLLS, WEBKINZ, ARTS AND CRAFT SUPPLIES, TONKA TRUCKS, WARM COATS, BABY CLOTHES, DIAPERS.
You can bring your donations to the temple (332 Hance Avenue, Tinton Falls, NJ), contact me at 732-747-9365, or contact Ronnie, Executive Director of ARMS. They are packing and shipping Little Soldiers parcels from the Tom's River Armory.
ARMS forwarded to me an email from a marine stationed at Camp Korean Village near the Iraqi-Syrian border. His words were gracious and upbeat but his online photo album depicted difficult living conditions and a grave seriousness about complacency. One photo showed muddy pools and unwashed soldiers outside the tents and equally spartan conditions inside. Running water and electricity are scarce. Fresh food with a sit-down mess hall are recently added luxuries.
The Marine shot two of the signs that mark exits from the camp: "Is Today Your Day? Complacency Kills" and the photo shown above defining complacency: "being overly satisfied or comfortable with an existing situation or condition; often while unaware of some potential hazard or danger. Don't Let it Happen to You." I know that, for us, complacency is not such a matter of life and death. But when comes to supporting soliders and their families we still shouldn't let it happen.
Friday, November 21, 2008
I am not alone
Rabbi Reuven Hammer, a reknowned scholar of the Conservative Movement, just published a commentary in the Jerusalem Post doing the very same thing. Citing Herzl, Hatikvah, Genesis and Zechariah, Rabbi Hammer concludes "Yes We Can" is Jewish.
Friday, November 7, 2008
Kids Can't Vote
I took my kids with me to Pennsylvania for the days just before the election because they need to learn about voting. There is good reason why kids can’t vote. They can parrot my statements about anything from economics to foreign policy. But they don’t and can’t really understand what they’re talking about. Kids can’t vote because it would be detrimental to our nation if we gave them such power. We would not be able to ensure our own continuity and stability if kids were allowed to vote. I don’t think anybody disagrees on this point (right?).
So why allow kids to have a vote, and in some cases a veto, regarding the nature of family religious observance and connection to Judaism? In recent weeks I have been disappointed by the lack of turnout and lukewarm engagement at important temple events. Shabbat Hallelu-Simchat Torah-Consecration was the most striking example. A few parents had organized a S’mores Oneg and BYO Dinner before the service. We publicized it widely. It had no cost associated with it. We had the professional “Hallelu” band. We had consecration of new students (each of whom had been personally invited). We had our celebration of the Torah cycle (see my previous post on that subject). We had a chocolate fountain and smores and we danced like wedding crashers with the Torah. But we had a relatively paltry turnout. Our regulars, of course were there. The two sets of parents who specially organized the oneg were there along with two other families who helped. A few of our religious school teachers were there. But the vast majority of our religious school families were not. Almost none of my seventh graders or confirmation students were there with their families (with few exceptions – you know who you are!) . Half of the consecration students and families were absent.
Many of our school parents have told me over the years that their children are among the only Jews in their schools. The parents want the kids to have some Jewish friends, a Jewish “home,” and sense of the Jewish community. Many have shared their outrage at their school's refusal to close for one or more of the High Holy Days. Others come with concern for antisemitism directed at their kids. Some blame the temple as part of the problem. One parent recently told me of his disappointment in the lack of social opportunities and community building in our temple. He "really wants his kids to have some Jewish friends," and doesn't understand why that hasn't happened through MRT. But when I asked about Simchat Torah, he told me that they didn’t come to the social gathering or the services because his attempts to arouse interest were met with dull protest. “Hey! They’re makin’ smooooores!” he cajoled. “Nooooo, we don’t wanna go,” they replied. The veto had been issued and he didn’t feel he had the power to override it - or maybe he was happy to have the "political cover" to avoid something he himself really doesn't want but refuses to admit.
But who gave these kids the power to vote, let alone veto their families' Jewish identity? When did otherwise smart adults cede the wisdom, authority and responsibility for raising their own children and passing on their most important values. This is not the Jewish way (see "teach them to your children" in the v'ahavta) and it's not the American way (see the 18 year old requirement to vote). During my volunteer work in the Pennsylvania campaign, I attended a Get Out the Vote Rally with hip hop superstar Jay-Z. He's no political genius or enlightened philosopher but he is a self-reliant, hard worker who talks about personal responsibility. Addressing the mostly young crowd he simply said: “We can’t hold your hand any further. You’ve got to get out and vote. It’s the only way you bring about the change we need.” I imagined he could be telling me something about my own work at MRT. So I'll pass it on to you: Take back your vote and take back your Judaism. Take back your responsibility and your parental authority. We can’t hold your hand any further. The rest is up to you… not your kids.
Tuesday, October 21, 2008
Simchat Torah, Shmimchat Torah
Why all the ambivalence? Good question.
At a Reform temple like ours, we try to balance tradition with contemporary pragmatism. As a rabbi, I try to balance my personal beliefs and practices with the culture of the congregation. I firmly believe that this is not my temple; it's your temple. Sure, my voice carries weight and you look to me for guidance and leadership. I believe that Simchat Torah is tonight. I believe it's important to celebrate Simchat Torah. I also believe we should try to avoid hypocrisy or ambiguous standards. I also believe that we should not tilt at ritual windmills. We tend to have scant participation in weekday festival observances. We get more involvement and better quality engagement with the rituals when we do them at a time that draws people in. It doesn't seem right to cancel a board meeting because of the importance of the festival's date when we don't also hold service for the same reason? That seems like the decisions of pure convenience that are usually the target of stereotypical critiques of Reform So we're left with this quandry: simchat torah, shmimchat torah. Does it really matter when we observe it? And if we don't have services, should we still "observe" the holiday in other typical ways - i.e. closing the building and cancelling meetings?
I know what I'll do for myself. I'll find a place to go to services tonight. That's easy because it's my personal practice. But what about the community? How do we shape a practice for the community that hews to the traditions of Judaism, responds to the realities of today, and doesn't sell either one short?
Thursday, October 16, 2008
scripted
As a child I had very good penship. And I began to think of Mrs. Polio, my first grade teacher, and her penmanship lessons. I actually don't remember the lessons so much as I remember the tests. After spending a more intensive few weeks on penmanship, she gave us a test that, she said, would be sent out for evaluation and grading. We would be evaluated both individually and as a class. Gold seal was the highest honor followed by gold star then darker colored stars with red star indicated the worst. I shuddered to think of who could possibly get such a red star. Who, after all, couldn't write the letters neatly enough to warrant some measure of gold?
I decided that I would do the last three certificates with my full signature in proper script - title and all. Mrs. Polio - not to mention my first grade self - would have been mortified to see that I could did not write "Rabbi" in gold seal script. I had grown so accustomed to making the "R" in print that I began with a print "R." The worst problem, however, turned out the be the lower case b's. Halfway through the first one, I realized I could not finish the letter without thinking about it. The pause produced a jarring dent in the letter and the following attempt to compensate completely butchered it. Not only had a failed a first grade level task, but I had ruined the certificate. How do I explain to our staff that I needed a new certificate because I could not remember how to sign my name on the first one?
(This is a work in progress.... Have you ever experienced this kind of memory lapse? Something so basic but, it turns out, more complicated than "riding a bike?").
Monday, October 13, 2008
Avodah Yom Kippur - Working towards Synaplex?
One of my teachers, Rabbi Herring (executive director of STAR) likes to remind us not to worry about the numbers of attendees at a program but about the quality and depth of their experience in it. I think we succeeded by both measures. The number of people in attendance equaled or exceeded our usual afternoon Yom Kippur turnout (and we didn't need to lure anyone into coming by giving them special parts). More importantly, so many of the attendees reported outstanding experiences in their sessions. Most complained that they could not decide which option to choose because all looked so good.
This program was a small taste of the model used by STAR's Synaplex initiative. What's Synaplex? STAR's website describes it like this: "While most Jews think of a synagogue as Beit Tefilah (a house of prayer), a synagogue is also Beit Midrash (a house of learning) and Beit Knesset (a house of gathering). It is these three classical functions of the synagogue that inspire Synaplex. Through innovative and concurrent programming that include Beit Midrash and Beit Knesset, in addition to Beit Tefilah, Synaplex synagogues strive to offer programming that is relevant, inspirational and significant so that more people will want to come to synagogue on Shabbat. The underlying goal is to strengthen Jewish Identity and build community." Maybe it's time to try this model on Shabbat - or on a few Shabbatot. Maybe we could actually bring together more of our community and make it more meaningful for them.
Sure, synagogues have been trying to do exactly that through gimmicks and "new" ideas throughout history. There's nothing new under the sun? If Yom Kippur was any kind of test case, I think we can use Synaplex to make our congregation an even stronger Jewish communal center for its members. Let's check it out.
Tuesday, October 7, 2008
"This is the fast..."
These tasks have become common pre-Yom Kippur rituals and I wish you Godspeed in getting them all done. But don't lose sight of the essential meaning of the holy day. Regarding the fast and all the traditional rituals of the day, our prophetic teacher exhorts us: don't do the rituals without making the world a better place. Specifically, don't starve yourself without feeding those who go hungry everyday. Don't recite the prayers for this to be a good year without reaching out to those whose situation is worse than you'll ever know. Isaiah: "Is this the fast that I desire? For you to starve your bodies? NO! This is the fast that I desire... To share your bread with the hungry,and to take the poor and desperate into your home; When you see the naked, to clothe him,and not to ignore his suffering…"
You can be part of this effort by helping me with CROP Walk. CROP Hunger Walks help children and families worldwide - and right here in the U.S. - to have food for today, while building for a better tomorrow. Each year some two million CROP Walkers, volunteers, and sponsors put their hearts and soles in motion, raising over $16 million per year to help end hunger and poverty around the world - and in their own communities. And you can be part of it!
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Have an easy fast, an easy pre-fast errand run, and may you be inscribed for a good year!
Friday, September 19, 2008
Additional Note to "No Small Thing"
Tuesday, September 16, 2008
No Small Thing
But life has a way of bringing things back around on us. This past Sunday, one of our younger students informed me that there was a swastika on a sign in the parking lot. He and his dad had tried to wipe it off but couldn’t. I found a small but clearly visible swastika scratched onto a sign right next to the side entrance.
I know of synagogues and cemeteries that have been desecrated with extensive damage. I know of recent, violent attacks against Jews. I know the swastika represents terror, hate, and violence. But this was just one, tiny, no-comments-attached swastika. Doesn’t that make it a small thing and nothing to worry about?
On the one hand, I don’t worry. I have found our community and its leaders to be supportive, responsive, and protective of our temple. We have a very good relationship with the Town of Tinton Falls and its Fire and Police Departments. We work closely with local churches and the local mosque on many issues. I know that we have many friends and we are a welcome and vital part of the community. On the other hand, I know that antisemitism has always flourished and worsened under tough economic times, protracted overseas conflict, and periods of declining national standing vis-Ã -vis the rest of the world. This is not Germany in the early 1930s, but it’s not the best of times either.
During our Israel trip, Roni the tour guide shared with me a photo that he felt was an important symbol for all Jews and something he kept on his computer as the desktop background: Israeli fighter bombers in a fly-over above the Auschwitz death camp on the 50th anniversary of its liberation. To see the magen david (star of david) painted on the side of the most powerful weapons in stark contrast to the ruins and emptiness of today’s Auschwitz is the best reminder that we don’t need to worry too much. Not just because Jews today have the ability and will to defend ourselves, but because we are the ones who survived and triumphed while Nazism was ultimately reduced to ashes and fringe elements.
I still think that German scholar was wrong and I would write the same letter today. I also think that the swastika at our temple does not represent a full attack on the Jewish community of Monmouth County. The sign with the swastika will likely be gone before you even read this posting. While I really don't worry too much, I am keeping Roni’s photo as my desktop background for a little while longer.
Monday, September 8, 2008
The power of "yes"
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WpQWXunA8Mo
The Asbury Park Press also ran an article about Taylor, her family, and the bat mitzvah:
http://www.app.com/apps/pbcs.dll/article?AID=2008809050395
It was a great day and we are all still so proud of Taylor and her family.
Thursday, August 28, 2008
DNC: Livin' on a Prayer?
Not everybody is so happy that the DNC is bringing so much faith and religion into the party and politics. Abe Foxman, Director of the ADL, criticized the DNC, noting that religion is no longer an element in understanding the character of the candidate but a central part of the party platforms. Barry Lynn, the director of Americans United for Separation of Church and State has pointed that while there's nothing illegal about religion at the conventions, it sends a troubling message. He told JTA, “It's a troubling trend to emphasize so often the connection between a party and a particular religious outlook.” Several members of our congregation stopped me at services and over the week to express their anger or disappointment in the DNC. Others are less surprised. One of our members has long told that the only difference he sees between the Democratic Party and the Reform Movement is the holidays observed by each.
Of course, the real problem is not the rabbis participating in the convention. The greatest introduction of religion to the convention will be the appearance of a voice more influential than any clergy. After Barak Obama's speech tonight, the stage will be given to a man who carries the weight of religious experience for millions of Americans: Jon Bon Jovi. It is not yet known if he will sing his signature ballad, “Livin’ on a Prayer” or one of the more recent Nashville inspired songs. In any event, Jon Bon Jovi is considered a god in many circles. His appearance overshadows the religious power of any prayer or scriptural reading. And I, for one, protest this infusion of religion into the election. It’s not just inappropriate to give a god a role in American politics. It’s plain unfair.
post-script from shortly after Obama's speech:
"Then Elijah said to the people... 'You will invoke your god by name, and I will invoke the Lord by name and let us agree: the god who responds is God'... So they invoked their god by name from morning until noon, but there was no sound and none who responded." (Abridged)
No Bon Jovi at the convention. Maybe the rabbis really did steal the spotlight. See more: http://app.com/apps/pbcs.dll/article?AID=/20080828/POLITICS/80828035
Thursday, August 21, 2008
Team Redeem: Going for gold
But, in both sports and Judaism, there is almost no thing so terrible that it can not be redeemed. This year’s men’s Olympic basketball team has adopted the name, “Team Redeem” (an obvious play on the “Dream Team” moniker bestowed on the 1992 lineup which included Larry Bird, David Robinson, Michael Jordan, et al.). As Prof. Neil Gillman teaches, Jewish ideas about redemption involve three levels: individual, group specific (i.e., the Jewish people), and universal.
In Beijing, the promise of redemption seems to be unfolding according to the Jewish model. The team and the Olympic men’s basketball program has regained credibility already. The story of individual redemption is best embodied (according to ESPN) in Dwayne Wade. Three years ago, Wade was at the top of his game and led the Miami Heat to the NBA Championships. Sportswriters called him “Flash.” In the past two years, he has floundered on the court and performed best on TV commercials with Charles Barkeley. Critics tagged him with the name, "Crash." Wade chalks up the hard times to poor health. He ran himself ragged in that championship season and never took time to recover and get strong again. So, he drained more energy, sustained injuries, needed two surgeries and it showed in his game. Dwayne Wade feels better, stronger, and healthier. He learned his lesson and got the rest and recovery that he needed.
On August 24th, if they make it to the finals, Wade and the team could bring group and national redemption with a gold medal. Even if they don’t, we can use the occasion to start preparing ourselves for the big showdown with redemption on the Jewish calendar. We have just over a month until Rosh Hashanah. That day we take over the role as Team Redeem. We have a month of Elul to prepare (our Olympic trials), Rosh Hashanah is our preliminaries round and Yom Kippur is the final. Get yourselves healthy and strong. Get your mind focused and bring you’re “A” game. We’re going for gold.
Wednesday, August 13, 2008
A minister and rabbi walk into a mosque...
Tuesday, August 5, 2008
SOS (Save our Synagogues) from Israel
July 23, 2008 20 Tamuz 5768
As leaders of Reform Jewry we need your help to save the future of the Reform Movement in Israel.
With the dramatic fall of the U.S. dollar in the last few months, the IMPJ, the Israel Movement for Progressive Judaism, finds itself in a financial crisis. Through no fault of its own, the IMPJ has 2 million fewer shekels than originally budgeted, representing more than 30% of its funding. To stay afloat, the IMPJ has had to lay off half its staff and has drastically cut back on its operations.
The timing could not be worse. Never before in Israel’s history has the Reform Movement been so strong and vibrant. With almost thirty congregations now flourishing in Israel, its own Reform youth movement, two kibbutzim, the Har Chalutz community in Northern Israel and its own Religious Action Center, the Reform Movement has become, according to a recent Israeli survey, the movement that 34% of all Israelis identify with the most (compared to 23% for the Orthodox).
This is why we need your help. Unprecedented in our Movement’s history, every major North American Reform organization is working together to save the IMPJ. As chairpersons and presidents of these organizations we have pledged to raise $500,000 over the next six weeks to help the IMPJ over its immediate financial crisis. As someone equally concerned about our Reform Movement in North America and throughout the world, we are asking you to quickly respond to this email with your own gift that will be immediately sent to underwrite IMPJ’s budget and to alleviate IMPJ’s financial crisis.
Please consider a one-time gift of $500. Please take a moment to make this gift online at our secure site: http://gm-link.com/tm.asp?c=40681&i=149865&u=. Canadian residents click here for a tax receipt form. Together, we can secure the years of hard work and the solid foundation that has been laid for the Reform Movement in Israel.
Thank you in advance for your support.
Peter Weidhorn, Chairman Union for Reform Judaism
Rabbi Eric H. Yoffie, President Union for Reform Judaism
Barbara Friedman, Chair Hebrew Union College-Jewish Institue of Religion
Rabbi David Ellenson, President Hebrew Union College-Jewish Institue of Religion
Rabbi Peter Knobel, President Central Conference of American Rabbis
Rabbi Steven Fox, Executive Vice President Central Conference of American Rabbis
Steve Bauman, Chairman World Union for Progressive Judaism
Rabbi Uri Regev, President World Union for Progressive Judaism
Rabbi Robert Orkand, President Association of Reform Zionists of America
Rabbi Andrew Davids, Executive Director Association of Reform Zionists of America
Joan Garson, President ARZA Canada
Rabbi Sharon L. Sobel, Executive Director ARZA Canada
Union for Reform Judaism www.urj.org/give
Wednesday, July 30, 2008
Kehillah Kedoshah
Camp Harlam has been hosting Dan Nichols for the past two days. Tonight, I had the chance to join Carmel (youngest campers) and Arava (7th graders) for an intimate Dan Nichols concert in the "New Beit" auditorium/gymnastics arena. I recognized his second song immediately:
Another great thing about camp: exposure to so much music, so many songs, so many new melodies for worship. I'll need to email the cantor and songleaders from this session to remember them all!
The Meetings Will Continue Until Morale Improves...
Here at Camp Harlam, the morale is very high. It's so high, in fact, that instead of beatings we have meetings. Sure, we have the usual morning faculty meeting and daily gatherings with our assigned camp unit. But we also have a steady stream of visitors who want to meet with us - "machers" from the movement, URJ department heads and others from Union HQ and "the field" (Rabbi Mike Mullen of the URJ Youth Division will be here tomorrow, Rabbi Rex Perlmeter, our new regional director is here today, Abbye Eisenthal, our regional youth director and her equivalent from the PA region have come through), Jewish recording artists come for artist in residence gigs (Dan Nichols is here now), etc... We have "meetings" with all of them to share best practices from their experience and ours. We seek synergy in our efforts and push each other to keep climbing to new heights.
I didn't stay in that first job too long. The endless beatings and data crunching weren't the biggest problem. It was the lack of morale and my realization that nobody wanted to meet with us because they'd rather beat back low morale than meet it (and potentially catch it). It's nice to have so many meetings. I assume they'll continue as morale only improves.
Tuesday, July 29, 2008
Meet Rabbi Frank, Meet the Camp
We reviewed the latest research about the impact of Jewish camping on the Jewish identity and practices of young people (see the book, “How Goodly are Thy Tents,” or the study, "Limud by the Lake," and the work of the Jewish Foundation for Camping). We talked about the financial and structural state of the camps (Kutz Camp in New York faces challenges, Camp Kalsman in Washington State is booming, Harlam is right on target). We also talked about the financial needs of our campers' families and the importance of scholarships like the JFC’s Campership program and the Jewish Federation of Washington’s Camp Scholarship program. This is our challenge: while camp is one of the most effective means for instilling strong, lasting, positive Jewish identity, it is also one of the most expensive. Camp Harlam has just hired an associate director who will take charge of future fundraising efforts, but the task is Herculean. Camp could use $3 million for facility improvements right now (bunk refurbishing, facility expansion and updating, regular wear and tear replacement)… not to mention scholarships. We talked a lot about Jewish identity, parenting, teaching, and creating a vitalized Jewish world. The bottom line is that Camp Harlam is in great shape and the Union’s camp programs are becoming more and more of a lynch pin in our vision for youth programming and education. I can not urge you strongly enough to come see this camp and send your kids here. The camp’s literature asks: what kind of Jewish children do we want to have? The camp’s program builds those children.
Later, I’ll post one of the great lessons from the meeting: it grew from the field before our eyes as we spoke. But now, we have a dinner out of camp with Rabbi DeWoskin and some other staff members to continue yesterday's conversation and thank the faculty as we approach the end of our tenure. New photos are posted on the album (click here or at right).
Saturday, July 26, 2008
Shabbat: A taste of the world to come
The Torah's description of creation says that before everything, "ruach elohim merachefet al pnai hamayim - Divine spirit hovered over the surface of the waters." When Moses passed the leadership mantle to Joshua, the Torah says that the "ruach (spirit)" passed to Joshua. Throughout our tradition, there is a sense that Shabbat taps into that primordial spirit and renews the spirit within us. The spirit of Shabbat at camp is sometimes contemplative and sometimes raucous but always strong and meaningful. The song session at Friday night dinner best exemplified the energetic and exciting spirit that (literally) screams, "Am Yisrael Chai - The Jewish People are ALIVE with pride, love, joy, and community!" This video says it all:
I am so proud to have four MRT campers here to share this experience, proud that MRT supports them with scholarships and my presence here, and proud of my colleagues and all the college aged staffers who work tirelessly to build a strong Jewish future. Am Yisrael Chai!
Rabbi Roos with tonight's havdallah song leaders for the Galil group (Rabbi Doug Sagal of Westfield, NJ is just behind us with helmet and bike). You can see more photos of camp in my camp photo album.
Thursday, July 24, 2008
Camp is Two Thumbs Up!
Big Blue is Green and Jewish
Tuesday, July 22, 2008
This is how they shall camp...
Ever since Sinai, the Jewish people have been campers. We may have lost that rugged, outdoorsy feeling over the generations, but the Torah is very clear about our camping. The Book of Numbers explicitly instructs how, where, and when the camp was to be set. Exodus tells of the time we built our first sanctuary as a tent in the wilderness with the camp surrounding it. Balaam, sent to curse Israel, instead pronounces a blessing: "Mah Tovu Ohalecha, Yaakov! Your tents are so good, Jacob!" What a good bunch of campers you are!
I arrived at the URJ's Camp Harlam yesterday to begin my two weeks of service as a camp faculty member. I have been assigned to work with the Galil unit (not to be confused with Israel's crack army unit of similar name), whose campers are going into eighth grade. I am living in "The Ritz" - an appropriately euphemistic name for the faculty barracks.
I came to camp for three reasons: First, Jewish overnight camps are among the most successful programs for instilling a strong, lasting, positive Jewish identify in our kids. Unfortunately, MRT had not sent many campers here for a while (we had a few stalwarts - Sarah, Kelsey!) and I want to boost our enrollment and see more MRT families take advantage of this amazing resource. Thanks to generous scholarships from the Foundation for Jewish Camping and MRT, two of our students received signficant incentive grants to help pay for camp. We have four campers here this session! Second, I learn a great deal during my two weeks at camp. I live and work with ten other cantors, rabbis, and educators on faculty along with those who work full time for the camps and the Union. I am able to learn best practices from others, experiment with different curricula and programs, and see the state of the art in Reform Jewish education and youth work from a national sample. It is one of the most impactful experiences I can have this year. Third, my own children are here at camp and this is a great way to experience it together. I went to Camp Bauercrest, a Jewish overnight camp, for 12 years and look forward to my kids having the lifelong friends, growth experiences, and pure fun that I enjoyed there every summer! Be sure to consider camp for you kids and ask me about it when I get home!
Sunday, July 20, 2008
Reflections on a first time visit to Israel
Thursday, July 17, 2008
Wednesday, July 16, 2008
Who you gonna call?
Before he fixed the small Torah scroll for us – one letter in the Joseph story needed to be repaired – Rabbi Druin wanted to make sure we knew that he was not going to write. In fact, he doesn’t write Torahs. He explained through some stories. First, Moses spent forty days atop Mount Sinai learning to form letters. It was the creation of the first alphabet and God taught it to Moses so he could create a Torah. Second, when the Jews returned from the Babylonian exile, they were led by…. a scribe named Ezra! Finally, Rabbi Druin reminded us that Genesis says God created the universe through words. We weren’t about to simply fix a letter. We would create a universe (like Genesis), lead Jewish redemption (like Ezra), and stand atop Sinai to commune with God (like Moses)… all that in a few minutes in our temple social hall!
In that vein, Rabbi Druin then explained that the ink he used was not, in fact, ink. It was liquid darkness. Just like in the creation story, we needed to combine darkness and light. The liquid darkness would be applied to the parchment, which is made of animal skin. Animal skin in Hebrew is called “OR” which is also the word for “light.” As Rabbi Druin explained, “the white part of the Torah is the soul and the black part is the body. When I make the Torah I have to put these together with such care. We can transform these things into something great.” The whole idea of Torah is to create reality and to change reality. He then made a simple blessing before putting body to soul. His only intention was that it would work.
He made a tiny stroke, an upside down Yod that transformed a Dalet back into a Hay so the word “Hinei” again emerged where “Dinah” had sat for the past few years. It was just a letter – actually only a piece of a letter. But the power of it was so much greater. Rabbi Druin explained: letters are called “OTIOT” in Hebrew. That word appears in a crucial description of the Exodus: God brought us out of Egypt with “MOFTIM” (Great Wonders) and “OTIOT” (“letters”?!). Could it really be possible? Did God really take us out of Egypt with letters? It must mean something else… something like “miracles.” Whether you believe in the Exodus story or not, the language is powerful. OTIOT are OTIOT. God took us out Egypt using them and Rabbi Druin produced one in the social hall today.
It was a heck of a morning and I wanted to share with everyone. You can bet I made a lot of calls.
(Thanks to Rich Sachs for the photos - click them for a close up)
Sunday, July 6, 2008
The Take Away: It's about the relationships
Our last day was a beautiful Shabbat in Jerusalem. We had nothing planned so the group took it all in: HUC (the Reform movement seminary), the Old City, and a last chance to play Marco Polo and pool tag together. We boarded Shlomo's bus one last time and drove to the Arab village of Abu Ghosh, reknowned for its cuisine and its long history of peaceful integration into Israeli society. The meal was perfect for the occasion - again with the bar mitzvah comparisons!
As the sun began to set, we gathered in the restaurant courtyard for Havdallah - the ceremony marking the end of Shabbat and the separation between holy and regular time. There's no better way to conclude an experience like ours. The service marks the end of Shabbat and the call to return to your "normal" life. This time it also marks our separation from Jerusalem and Israel. We each felt, however, that the greatest change was within ourselves. Roni says that with all the thousands of people he has guided through Jerusalem, he has never seen a person remain unchanged by their contact with Jerusalem. We are no exception. We blessed that change with wine, fire, and the scent of fresh basil pulled from the courtyard. I asked everyone to share what is their biggest "take away" from the trip. Everyone agreed that the comraderie and the relationships we made on this trip were its greatest blessings. We sang of Eliyahu Ha-Navi and extinguished the flame. The change is complete.
Thanks, Roni and Shlomo. Thanks to the group. Thanks to Ayelet, IGT and all those behind the scenes who made this trip possible. Thanks to God and thanks to all Israel.
Friday, July 4, 2008
Shabbat Shalom! Happy Fourth of July!
I took the computer on the bus with me today and finally wrote many of the blog postings that have lapsed these past days. Be sure to go back to July 1st to read the posting that inserted along the postings that follow under this one (all dated today). I'll will put up pictures as soon as I have the chance. Some great shots from Dead Sea floating and Alex's naming ceremony will be up, hopefully, by tomorrow.
Shabbat services tomorrow morning at HUC and a tour of the campus. Sadly, we must depart this special place tomorrow night. We leave richer for the experience and happy to rejoin you. Each of us on this trip will definitely say at the Passover seder, "Next Year in Jerusalem" and really mean it! I hope you'll part of that next trip to Israel. See you soon.
MASADA WILL NOT FALL AGAIN
Maybe even more powerful than the helicopters was the naming ceremony for Alex Shapiro on top of Masada. We blessed Alex with the name Rachel bat Leah, a name of beauty, strength, and heritage. Lynn’s words at the close of the ceremony say it all: “When I brought Alex to the American embassy in Moscow 11 years ago, I didn’t think it could ever get any better. When I brought her to Newark for her naturalization as a US citizen, I didn’t think it could get any better. But standing here now, with thanks to all of you, I know it can not possibly get any better than this.” With Gunnar Wainright (just yesterday our bar mitzvah!), Ernie, Perry holding a tallit over her head like a chuppah, Alex re-stated her commitment to Torah and the Jewish people. To participate in such ceremony atop this plateau is to become part of the promise that Masada will not fall gain... because of this too.
Eitz Hayyim – A Tree of Life (from Wednesday)
We came to Yad Vashem after a morning in the old city. We toured the western wall tunnels and got to the spot closest to the ancient holy of holies. This is the spot that has drawn our people from all over the world since the days of Abraham. Our tradition says “ki mitzion tetzei torah” from out Zion will come Torah, our “tree of life.” Exiting the tunnels to the kotel plaza we could feel the spirit of Judaism. Roni showed us a famous picture of the paratroopers who took the Old City in 1967 and rushed to this spot – the first Jews to take control of the holy site in almost 2000 years. They stood in awe and respect for the place and moment. They came back 40 years later (last year) to revisit. The place has power, but it’s the life force from the people that you feel here so strongly: normal people doing extraordinary things in this place. It channels this force and enhances its strength.
It is a tree of life to those who hold fast to it.
Thursday, July 3, 2008
It's like a bar mitzvah, part 2
Wednesday, July 2, 2008
Ha-kol B'seder (everything's okay)
Today was a busy day. We drove through the Dung Gate to the Kotel and went straight into the under "ground" tunnels (they're actually just under the construction of the streets). This allowed us close access to the unexposed sections of the Kotel and the closest point to the Holy of Holies. We then went to the Kotel itself and, for the men, put on tefillin and said Shema. We offered words of wisdom to Gunnar and put tefillin on him (see the photos). From there we went to the Davidson Center/Robinson's arch. It was so hot that most of the kids bailed out and played cards with Elizabeth in the covered portion of the exhibit. Then into the Jewish Quarter for lunch and a hour of power shopping - Arab market, Jewish Cardo - as a group we acquired a lot (if you'll pardon the expression), but some were accused of being "not nice" for browsing in one Arab stall but buying in another. Lynn explained to the slighted merchants that this is what we call "shopping." Ahh, market place diplomacy! After the shopping, we boarded the bus for Yad Vashem - the Holocaust Museum and Memorial complex.
We ended that visit with a memorial service in the "Valley of the Lost Communities" - in front of the memorial stones for Czechslovakia. The Torah scroll in our temple lobby is a surviving artifact from the community of Breznice, Czechslovakia. We read the names of the Jews from Breznice who died in the Shoah and memorialized them along with all our brothers and sisters who died at the hands of Nazis. May their souls be bound up in the bond of eternal life. We carry their memory with us throughout the land and into our own lives. Through us, they will never be lost. Yad Vashem was packed with platoons of Israeli soldiers (we saw hundreds) who visit as part of their training and service. It was a powerful symbol of the promise, "Never Again." Though they are complete strangers, it's hard not to feel proud of them.
Tonight we are going to dinner on the midrachov (pedestrian and shopping area on Ben Yehuda Street). It's the first time we'll get to a "food court" that not's in a mall. The old courtyards and winding alleys have been converted in to shops, cafes, and restaurants.
Tomorrow, the group will go to the temple mount with Roni while Gunnar, Brook, and I prepare for his service. The bar mitzvah will be at 10:30 AM tomorrow back at Robinson's Arch (near the Kotel). Then we'll go the Israel museum, Knesset (from the outside), and David's Tower museum.
Keep checking in and checking the photos. My internet connection is not the best here, but I'll post whatever and whenever I can. I will also backfill photos from Jerusalem as I upload photos from other people's cameras (I'm not the best photographer).
Tuesday, July 1, 2008
Giants in the land
From lunch we went to Bet Shean, a giant Roman era archaeological site. Huge Corinthian columns proudly stand along the ancient thoroughfare. It is not hard to envision a great city in its heyday of 50,000 occupants. But Nature was the true superpower here. A massive earthquake brought this city to the ground. Half the city’s columns lie where they fell – still exactly parallel – from the day a huge shock wave literally pulled the ground from under them.
Next stop Tiberias. Here we encountered some of the Jewish people’s greatest giants. The grave of the Rambam, the site of the Talmudic era Sanhedrin (those who read “As a Driven Leaf” may remember this as an important setting in the story). We were most moved by the Kinneret Cemetery. The great halutzim – pioneers – built the first kibbutz, Degania, here. They are buried here and Israelis come to honor their recent history here. This cemetery is the Israeli equivalent of the old cemeteries on the Freedom Trail in Boston, burial site of Paul Revere, Sam Adams, and their generation.
Finally, Shlomo the driver pressed his bus up the new road from Jericho to the heights of Mt. Scopus. We passed through the ¼ mile tunnel through and into the golden light of Jerusalem’s skyline. We discovered that powerful, living giants had been with us all along, right on the coach. Emotion unexpectedly overwhelmed many on the bus. You could hear the collective gasp and see the giant emotion in tear filled eyes. We stopped to take it all in. We embraced Jerusalem, its heritage, and its ability to link us with every soul who ever connected with the Jewish people. We read Psalm 122, “We were pilgrims standing inside your gates… I became happy when they said to me, ‘Let us go up to the house of Adonai’.” We blessed and ate a giant, sweet challah and wine then thanked God with Shehechiyanu. The tears were real and unexpected. The land still holds giants.
Monday, June 30, 2008
Tzafon: The place of reckoning
It is also taught that things will be judged and great reckoning will take place here. The Bible tells us that in ancient Israel each tribe had its own assigned place. The tribe of Dan was given the coastal plain near today's Tel Aviv, but in the days of the Judges they moved north. During a period of civil unrest, the Danites marched through other tribal territories and took the northern land. Commentators point out that the word "Dan" is a cognate of the Hebrew word "to judge" (i.e. din, dayan). From a literary perspective the story of Dan's move to the North is a story about judgement - Israelites reckoning their difference with other Israelites, God closing some unfinished business with people, and nations versus each other in the Middle East.
This is the place where we started our touring today, at Tel Dan, a nature preserve and site of an important archeological dig. Here you can see the ruins of the ancient city of Dan and its gates. Here archaeologists found the only extra-biblical references to King David. Here we can see one of the springs that feeds the Jordan River. It's a beautiful nature preserve with hiking trails, pools, and flora ranging from eucalyptus to bamboo and all types of flowers.
But this is a place whose beauty belies its underlying tension and explosive potential (truly... there are volcanoes just over the Golan Heights, about 15 miles away). From here Israel staged its sorties and troop transports into Lebanon in the 80s and 90s. From here, Hizbollah kidnapped soldiers and drew Israel into prolonged conflict. From here, the most precious resource - water - can be drawn or dammed. As in those days when Dan first traversed the country, Israel today judges itself and reckons with its neighbors from here.
We hear that the Knesset voted to approve a swap: known terrorist murderers for Israeli soldiers, Regev and Goldwasser, and some information about Ron Arad, missing since the 1980s. We hear about possible negotiations with Syria and about giving back the Golan. This is a tense time and Israelis are conflicted. They want peace and they want security. They want their soldiers repatriated and they are willing to pay a steep price for them. They want water and all the luxuries that come with it (irrigation, lawns, cold drinks, etc.).
They look to the north like the ancient Dan ancestors. We can't make it by the coastal plain alone. We must go the place of mystery to the Tzafon. The country is moving and judgement moves with them. There will be a reckoning of Israel with its neighbors, with itself, with its water and resource supply. And no doubt, as in ancient days, that judgement will involve the Tzafon.
Photos uploaded today
More later, after dinner....
Sunday, June 29, 2008
"Af Al Pi Chen" - Nevertheless
At Haifa we stood below Mount Carmel site of the story of Elijah the Prophet. In biblical days, he stood against King Ahab and Queen Jezebel at the risk of death. They had forsaken the Traditions of the ancestors and worshipped the foreign god, Ba'al. Elijah challenged the prophets of Ba'al to a kind of holy duel - your god vs. mine - atop this very mountain. Elijah won but had to flee for his life. He fled to the desert where he encountered the "still small voice" of God. He wins a battle but the war is not over - nothing is handed to him on a silver platter.
From that base of Mt. Carmel, we then entered the museum of the Israeli navy. Its centerpiece is a display about the illegal immigration - the Ma'apilim Jewish partisans who ran the British blockades in the 1940s to bring Holocaust survivors to the Jewish homeland. The conditions were terrible. You may know the story of the Exodus ship and the internment camps on Cyprus. They looked a lot like concentration camps. We learned about this from a young woman (maybe in her mid-20s) who is an officer in the navy. Roni pointed out to us that she wore on her uniform the insignia indicating that she had served in the Lebanon war 2 years ago. She toured us around the grounds and through one of the ships that had been used to run the British blockades (now preserved in dry dock at the musuem). The ship we toured had entered service after the Exodus disaster when thousands of refugees had been repatriated to Europe by force. The ship's name captured the spirit of the ma'apilim efforts: Af Al Pi Chen, Hebrew for "Nevertheless." Even though the obstacles are great and history indicates we may lose many battles, NEVERTHELESS we will not be stopped. We will make our home in this land in peace, safety, and happiness. Nevertheless...
What commitments do you have in your life that you would name "Af Al Pi Chen?" What goals will you pursue with full vigor even against the greatest of doubts?